Who's This?
Conah Dullane holds a very special place in my heart. He was the third character I ever created and played in a D&D campaign, and this campaign was also the second (and longest running) campaign I'd ever finished. This game was run by a close personal friend of mine. We started in October of 2019 and finished the game in August of 2020. There were (consistently) four players, with a fifth joining whenever he could.
Our PCs
1. Conah Dullane: Scourge Aasimar of Aphrodite, Way of the Four Elements Monk
1.5. *Xanword Fallone: Half-Elf, Brute Fighter
*Xanword was another PC of mine that I switched Conah out with for a short time for the purposes of character development. He's still wonderful though, and definitely worth talking about in another post.
2. Lyre: Half Drow, Light Domain Cleric of Aphrodite
2.5. **Echo: Vampire, College of Whispers Bard
**Echo is Lyre's husband, also played by the same player. He and Lyre frequently switched in and out of the party to take turns taking care of their adopted daughter.
3. Kaz: Water Genasi, Life Domain Cleric of Apollo
4. Ike: Changeling, Path of the Ancestral Guardian Barbarian
5. Kayne: Half-Elf, Hexblade Warlock, Pact of the Blade
The campaign took place in a medieval / Ancient Greece spliced fantasy setting, hence the reference to gods like Aphrodite and Apollo. Conah served Aphrodite, the goddess of love, beauty, and sex. As a result, he had bright pink skin and eyes that were blue like the sea. For most of the campaign, his hair was short and tightly curled. Before that, it had been set in locks.
Conah was also a particularly unique character for me because he was deaf. He'd been born that way, and his deafness was incurable by magical means. He communicated with the party by signing (to those that knew sign language), writing, or by trying his best to speak orally (which, to be fair, he got better and better at as the campaign went on.)
When the campaign began, Conah was 18 years old.
Backstory
This backstory was one of the most involved that I had (and have) ever written. I'm going to give the short version here.
Conah is the oldest of three siblings, all of whom are aasimar of Aphrodite. At the start of the campaign, when Conah was 18, his brother Gadriel was 14 and his sister Coretha was 9. Their father, Aedimus, was also an aasimar of Aphrodite who served Aphrodite by helping sad and lonely women feel loved. Aedimus fell in love with one woman in particular: Mara Dullane. Conah and his siblings were the result, and Conah was the only one born deaf.
At age 5, Conah received a strange dream of the Monastic Temple of the Elements outside of his hometown of Redwater. His father was sure the dream had come from Aphrodite, and that this was how Conah was meant to serve her. So, Aedimus took him there, and he began training as a monk.
When Conah was 11, Aedimus left his three children in the care of their mother and never returned. He had to move on to the next woman; his goddess ordered it, and he had to comply. Mara went completely off the deep end after that, having lost the man she loved and listening to the small town gossip surrounding her and her three children had out of wedlock. She turned violent very quickly. Conah did his best to protect and take care of his younger siblings.
After two years of living this way, it seemed as though Mara had finally snapped. She sold her three aasimar children into slavery to make quick coin. Conah fought, but he wasn't strong enough. All three of them ended up in the city of Dis, in the second layer of the Nine Hells. Somehow, despite being transferred from devil to devil in three auctions, the three of them managed to stay together. Conah received awful, ugly scars on his back from his time in the Hells.
Five years of living in misery ticked by, until Conah and his siblings were rescued by a group of high-level adventurers. They were brought back to the material plane, outside the capital city, Theanus, on their home continent of Eushora. Conah brought his siblings to the Aphrodite temple, hoping to find shelter, warmth, food, and the first real safety they'd had since their enslavement.
That was where the campaign began.
Character Development
I decided that I wanted Conah's character arc to be centered around him moving past his trauma from being enslaved, abused, and abandoned by both of his parents thus forcing him to basically become the parent to his younger siblings.
Conah told his adventuring party about what happened to him fairly early on. It wasn't a secret and the basic story wasn't difficult for him to tell. The details were always the hardest, so he didn't go into them.
During the campaign, there was an 11 year period (for our characters, anyway) during which we were trapped in a demiplane of darkness created by Nyx, the goddess of night and the BBEG of the campaign. Conah's siblings had "blipped" too, but only for 9 years. The Dullane Siblings' age gaps also changed: Conah was still 18, but Gadriel was 16 and Coretha was 11 now. Conah's father Aedimus made a reappearance, found, and took care of Gadriel and Coretha while Conah was in the demiplane and later while he was adventuring. Aedimus was the first person Conah went really into detail with, and later, Kaz would also get the same story.
Why Kaz? He was something of a substitute father-figure for Conah; a dad before Aedimus was around, and a dad when Aedimus couldn't be there. Conah and Kaz's relationship was really rewarding for me. They were very close, but I think that if there's one regret I have from this game, it's that we weren't closer. I feel like there could have been more, but I'm not sure what. Regardless, what was there was very strong, so of course, he would have been the first party member to get that full story.
As I mentioned, I swapped Conah out of the campaign for a short time for character development. That decision occurred after the party went to a city that was overrun by cultists who worshiped Nyx and who were also enslaving the children of the town. Obviously, this struck a huge well of trauma for Conah and he left the party very suddenly and very mentally unwell. The only person who went with him was Lex, a Drow NPC who was travelling with us. She was also a Draconic Bloodline Sorceress, Lyre's half sister, and (at this point in the campaign) Conah's significant other. She was the third person to receive Conah's full story after those events. The DM and I worked out what happened with Conah while he was gone: the support he'd received, the time he spent with his family, etc. I think that time was just really good for him, and when he came back, he was met with a very warm welcome.
Getting over what happened to him, I think, came when, at the end of the campaign, he killed the man who'd first enslaved him and his siblings - someone who'd caused him a lot of pain. Additionally, the party traveled through the Nine Hells very late in the game. Much of that arc was spent with Conah reassuring himself and being reassured by his party that no one would come to hurt him again. They wouldn't let them. Much of it was also plagued by dreams of futures that could be, and nightmares that Conah wasn't sure were real or fake due to Hypnos, the god of sleep, messing with his mind. He had to rely on other people to help him through all of it. He learned that he didn't have to take care of his party right now; they needed to take care of him, and that was okay. He made it through.
His parental abandonment was an interesting point. Conah came around to Aedimus fairly quickly, but part of the reason why was because Conah understood why he left, and Gadriel and Coretha had already made their peace with him. Mara was harder. Aedimus killed Mara after Gadriel and Coretha told him the bare bones of what happened to them. Conah met her again in the Underworld, in the Fields of Punishment (where she belonged.) She confessed that she married, that Conah had a half-brother, and that his stepfather was... not so kind. The party accompanied Conah as he went back to his childhood home and rescued Ronan: a four-year-old, blind tiefling boy. A deaf angel and a blind devil. What a pair, am I right?
The last piece of Conah's development came when Lex found out that she was pregnant with Conah's child while they were travelling in the Underworld. Lex left the Underworld so that she'd be safe. Once the party left the Underworld, Conah had to become a father - a real father, of his own child and not his siblings. He struggled but realized that... he already had the basics down, really. Gadriel and Coretha assured him of that and insisted that he'd been an excellent brother. Aedimus had done the same. It was a really touching moment, and although it didn't make Conah not-nervous, it made him less nervous. Lex gave birth to a healthy half-elven girl: Avarielle. They nicknamed her "Ava."
Post-Campaign:
When Nyx was defeated, Conah had the opportunity to cure his deafness, which he did along with Ronan's blindness.
Conah married Lex just after Ava was born. They'd have three more kids together: Roseia and Meira (twin half-elven girls), and Callan (a deaf aasimar boy.) They lived peacefully for the rest of their days. Conah frequently visits the rest of his party, and they remain great friends.
Aphrodite gave Conah the opportunity to ascend to godhood and become Eros, the god of love and sex. He agreed, but only as long as it occurred after his mortal life ended.
So, in the end, everything turned out wonderfully, I think! Honestly, I don't think I could've asked for a better ending. I loved this game, and I think that a huge reason why was because I loved this character. I loved his relationship with his family and the others that he loved. I enjoyed the emotional turmoil that came with playing him, and the interactions he had with the other party members. All in all, I think his arc wrapped up very nicely.